Goals are the compass of our lives, guiding us toward what we want to achieve and who we want to become. But not all goals are created equal. In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to set goals based on societal expectations or external measures of success. But what if the purpose of setting goals was not just about achieving outcomes but about growing into the best version of ourselves? This idea is at the heart of my ALIGNED framework for setting life goals.
What Is a Goal Worthy of Your Life?
A goal worthy of your life is one that calls to the deepest parts of who you are. It’s not merely a checklist item or something you think you “should” do. Instead, it’s a goal that resonates with your authentic desires, challenges you to grow, and inspires you to expand your horizons.
Wallace D. Wattles, Napoleon Hill, and other thought leaders emphasize the power of vision and desire in shaping our lives. A worthy goal pushes us beyond what we think is possible, attracting new partners, resources, and opportunities into our orbit. Like a seed planted in fertile soil, such a goal has the potential to grow into something extraordinary—if nurtured with intention and care.
The Limitations of the SMART Framework
The SMART framework (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) has long been heralded as the gold standard for goal setting. It’s a fantastic tool for business objectives and certain types of personal goals. For example, using SMART can help you plan a project or hit a fitness milestone with clarity and precision.
But when it comes to life goals, SMART falls short. Here’s why:
Achievable vs. Aspirational: SMART encourages setting achievable goals, but life goals worthy of your soul are often the opposite—they feel a little nauseating because you’re unsure how to accomplish them. These types of goals stretch you.
Time-bound vs. Timeless: Life goals don’t always fit neatly into a timeline. They evolve as you grow and require flexibility rather than rigid deadlines.
Relevant vs. Revolutionary: SMART focuses on goals that align with your current context, but the most transformative life goals often challenge your existing circumstances and beliefs.
Introducing the ALIGNED Framework
The ALIGNED framework shifts the focus from pragmatic outcomes to the profound impact goals can have on your life. Here’s a breakdown of what ALIGNED stands for:
Authentic: Your goals should reflect your true desires, not societal expectations or what others think you “should” want.
Liberating: A worthy goal sets you free from self-imposed limitations and societal constraints, empowering you to create a life you love.
Inspiring: Goals should ignite passion and excitement, motivating you to take action even when the path is unclear.
Growth: Life goals should challenge you to expand your skills, knowledge, and comfort zone.
Novel: Break free from routine by pursuing goals that bring freshness and newness into your life.
Enlivening: Your goals should fill you with joy, energy, and a sense of aliveness.
Daring: The best goals make you a little nervous. They demand courage and the willingness to take risks.
A.L.I.G.N.E.D Framework
The Journey of Growth: A Comparison to Plants
Just as a plant’s growth depends on fertile soil, sunlight, and water, your growth as a human being depends on the quality of your goals. A plant doesn’t shrink back from reaching for the sun, and neither should you. Life goals that scare you—the ones that make your stomach flutter—are often the ones that lead to the most profound growth.
These daring goals draw to you what you need to succeed: partnerships, resources, and skills you never imagined you could access. They’re the kind of goals that, once achieved, leave you in awe of what you’ve accomplished and who you’ve become in the process.
How My eBook Guides You
In my eBook, I take you on a journey to discover and create goals worthy of the miracle that you are. Using the ALIGNED framework, I provide practical steps and reflective exercises to:
Uncover your authentic desires.
Break free from limiting beliefs.
Set goals that inspire, challenge, and enliven you.
This isn’t just another goal-setting guide; it’s a transformative experience designed to help you live a life you love.
Your Life, Your Goals
Imagine a life where every goal you set feels like an adventure, pulling you toward your highest potential. That’s the power of the ALIGNED framework. It’s not about ticking boxes; it’s about creating a life that feels as extraordinary as the person living it.
Are you ready to take the leap? Download my eBook and start your journey today. Together, let’s set goals worthy of the miracle you are.
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